Mindful Monday: Open Your Heart

Good morning, dearest mindful ones! I hope you had a lovely weekend.

On Saturday, we had a memorial service for my dearest friend who left us way too early. Of course it was heart wrenching and so very sad. But there’s something about pausing from our day to day routines to drill down that allows us to connect to the bigger picture.

It was a heart achingly beautiful day surrounded by so many loved ones. It really shifted my perspective and opened my heart immensely. Death is the greatest teacher about life. Here are my thoughts.

When we move from FEAR, we live in a state of anxiety, anger, confusion, malcontent, discontent, greed, jealousy, hatred; we feel disconnected and unhappy. We then seek physical pleasures and material possessions to find temporary reprieve from the negative spiral of emotions.

When we move from LOVE, we realize that there is nothing stronger than kindness, compassion, patience, tolerance, graciousness and forgiveness. There is nothing to fix or change or recover. We realize that we are ALL connected to every living being, both great and small. When others hurt us, we try to find ourselves in that person. We seek to understand. We will, inevitably, be hurt. As we sit with our pain, we are reminded that it is part of the deal of being HUMAN. It’s inescapable. We feel it and feel it and feel it until it passes. And it ALWAYS passes. And we take the lesson and move on. We seek to destroy barriers. We seek to liberate others from their wheel of misery as we work arduously each day to free ourselves.

We remember that everything is temporary and so fleeting. And we try not to attach. We practice releasing our expectations of how life should be, and we work really hard to appreciate what we have when we have it.

And as life inevitably shifts, we work so hard to open our hands and our hearts and let everything go.

I’ll definitely be seeking some serious mat time this week to support myself as I work on letting go and opening up.

Make it a great week, yogis! Remember that whatever you may be going through, it is so temporary. And that you are never, ever alone in our YBD community.

Anicca! Be happy!

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