Good morning and happy Monday, beautiful mindful ones!
Yesterday we celebrated fathers everywhere! They are the strength and providers (traditionally) of our families. Kudos to all of the loving, active, supportive dads everywhere with their corny dad jokes and all of their hard work.
My dad is currently in Barcelona, so I was grateful to speak with him on the phone and wish him a happy Father’s Day!
I spent the day with my mom, brother, son and nephew. What an epic day!
After a delicious meal together, we tossed the Big Kahuna frisbee around. It’s all fun and games until someone gets beaned by that hard plastic flying disc!
Which was me. Right in the shin! I’ll happily show you the bruise if I see you at the studio this week!
I took a bit of a break to nurse my wound while the boys kept playing. After some time, my seven year old nephew told me to get back in the game. Lol.
Which I did. But I was very timid at this point. He had tons and tons of advice for me: “Auntie Nadja, You have to run faster. You have to jump! You have to run towards the frisbee! Don’t look away. Keep your eyes on the frisbee. You closed your hands too soon.” It was a steady steam.
And it was all great advice! When I told him that I was afraid of the frisbee, he told me: “It’s ok Auntie Nadja. Just don’t focus on the pain. Focus on the frisbee.”
And that little nugget of advice struck me as so deeply profound.
Don’t focus on the pain. Focus on the frisbee.
How often do we get stuck focusing on the pain in a situation? Immersing ourselves in it. Sure, we need to pause and evaluate the situation. But then it’s time to move on! Get back in the game and move forward!
Countless situations in life are painful. Divorce. Death. Kids leaving for college. Betrayals from so-called friends or loved ones. We need time to heal and reassess our life perspective.
But rather than focusing on the pain, we can focus on the lesson. How is this pain an opportunity to grow and strengthen. Or to grow and soften. Let the pain be what wakes you up and gets your attention, but not the focal point.
Brilliance. From a seven year old!
Unbeknownst to me, as I was tending to my poor shin, my son got hit in the face with the frisbee and had a busted lip. ￼This kid is an athlete. He has been since he was four. Which is probably why he didn’t even mention his busted lip for a solid hour to me! He continued playing without a peep.
He had clearly gotten that don’t focus on the pain memo! Lol
Life sometimes hurts us, dear souls. Let’s not focus on￼ the pain. Let’s learn and grow from it. Let’s let the pain transform us and elevate us! (Insert gratuitous image of the Rock. You’re welcome!)
Have a great week, my dearest ones!