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Mindful Monday: Strength 


Happy Mindful  Monday, friends! I hope you had a lovely weekend. 
Yesterday was a special day where we honor and celebrate our fathers. When I think of my father, who I am so blessed is still with us, I think of strength. No, he doesn’t look anything like the dude pictured above.  My dad has a quiet strength that I’ve always leaned on. It’s given me an endless supply of confidence my entire life. When I was younger, my dad knew everything. And he is the most patient, kind, compassionate person I’ve ever met. 
I’m also so blessed that my son has two fathers in his life. His dad and his stepdad. These two special men are so devoted to my son. They are providers of everything my child needs to navigate this world; the most important being love and patience and support. 

When I think of a great father, it is someone who is strong and steady; wise; can fix anything; protector; sets boundaries and expectations. All of these qualities exude fatherly love IMO. It can sometimes seem like a thankless job. 

I was not able to spend the day with my dad yesterday as he is traveling in Asia. I was fortunate to spend part of it with my big brother and his family. And my mother. 

Maybe yesterday was a struggle for you. Perhaps you are missing your dad who is no longer here. I know some of you may not have had the best relationship with your father. He was lacking in some way that still causes your inner child so much pain. Or there was physical distance that separated you, as in my case. For many reasons, yesterday may have not been the happy, shiny image that you saw all over social media. 

The truth is, we give and receive this fatherly type of love to those around us all the time. We’ve all had to fill in as some type of a father figure at some points in our lives. Families pull together to plug in the gaps. Anytime someone has protected you from some external threat or shielded you from some pain. Anytime you have fixed something for someone or even wrapped them in your arms and provided a shoulder to cry upon. Tossed a baseball or football with a child. Even picking up the dinner tab for family and friends. Quietly provided and received strength and confidence. These are the qualities that embody a father – you have received this type of love from some fatherly source in your life. 

Yoga teaches us to understand that everything happens exactly as it should. Whether your childhood relationship with your father was lacking or filled with love, it has shaped you into the amazing, strong, lovely person that you are. So important that we acknowledge exactly how we feel and learn to slowly heal and nurture our own inner child. 

Do you know what the best thing about childhood is? It’s that it’s over. Your safety, security and happiness are now in your hands. Nobody elses. 

Have a great week, yogis! Looking forward to seeing so many of you on your mats this week! 

Mindful Monday: Welcome to February 

Happy Mindful Monday, friends! Well we made it through the looooongest month of the year together. We’ve watched the groundhog look for his shadow, and we watched Tom Brady lead his team in an unbelievable comeback in last night’s Super Bowl! Well,  yogis,  it’s smooth sailing from here. The days are longer. We have more sunshine. So much to look forward to. And of course the best moment is THIS one. Right here, right now. Always.

We hope that you had an amazing January! How are you doing with any resolutions that you have made? Remember that if you stumble and fall, let it be forward. We know from our practice that at any moment, we can inhale and BEGIN again.

YBD had TWO programs in January designed to help us kickstart the new year through mindfully looking at HOW we eat. Both groups met together on Sundays in January and supported one another through a community approach.

Teresa ran her Shred program which included a high intensity workout together each week, plus participants were  encouraged to take three additional classes during the week. They also worked individually with a certified nutritionist for custom meal plans.   Of the 16 participants, they lost a collective 42 lbs (of those that reported their weight loss)! That’s the equivalent of a three-year-old child! or a 15-foot canoe! or a human leg – wait… what? 

Well maybe not the Rock’s leg … But you’re welcome for that image. 😂 

Congratulations to all of our Shred program graduates! Teresa is leading another group through Shred  beginning on February 12! You can sign up at any of our locations.

I had the privilege to lead 23 students through my annual 21 day detox in January! This program focuses on a mindful lifestyle where we remove caffeine, sugar, gluten, alcohol and all animal proteins. We meet and practice together each week and support eachother with daily messages, touchpoints and encouragement. I am so happy to report that collectively  we lost a total of 95.8 lbs (of the 17 people who reported weight loss)! That’s the equivalent of my dog Rupert, a purebred bloodhound!

A two-month-old foal. A baby hippo! In addition to the weight loss, one of our members Jacky B. , who normally suffers from almost daily migraines, did not experience a SINGLE migraine during the cleanse! And Sandy S. said that the journaling aspect of the cleanse literally transformed her life! More than 125 YBD students and teachers have experienced this life-changing cleanse with me throughout the past few years. Watch for the next opportunity to take this cleanse … coming soon.

We know that we are more successful when we hold ourselves accountable to others. That’s why we are so very blessed to have our YBD community to support, encourage and uplift us. Remember we don’t have to wait till the beginning of the year for  new goal or a fresh start. We just need the willingness to begin again. 

Until next week, friends! 

Mindful Monday: Happy MLK Jr. Day 

Happy Mindful Monday, friends, yogis, deep thinkers and not-so-deep thinkers, too! 

Most of us have the day off today – from work and our children –  from school. Except us yoga teachers and staff. Yoga doesn’t take federal holidays! 😂

But how many of us truly know exactly WHY the third January of the month is a federal holiday? We all know Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous speeches right? And that he was a champion of non-violence. We may know that he gave his very life for his beliefs in racial equality, freedom and justice. 

Today we celebrate the life and legacy of a great American whose inspiring words, vision and the way he lived  continue to uplift us.  He taught us through his example — the values of courage, truth, justice, compassion, dignity, humility and service that so radiantly defined Dr. King’s character and empowered his leadership. On this holiday, we commemorate the universal, unconditional love, forgiveness and nonviolence that empowered his revolutionary spirit.

Many of Dr. King’s beliefs and morals mirror the teachings of our Yoga Sutras. His steadfast belief in non-violence aligns with our very first Yama – ahimsa. 

Dr. King dedicated his life to the service of others. And we practice yoga specifically to strengthen mind, body and spirit precisely to be of service to others off of our mats. 

We commemorate his guiding principle of unconditional love and equality for all. Dr. King’s great dream of a vibrant, multiracial nation united in justice, peace and reconciliation mirrors the highest ideals we seek when we step on our mats. Yoga becomes the great unifier for us all. It doesn’t matter what your racial, economic, political or social status and beliefs are when we practice moving together,  breathing together, focusing in the same direction, sharing energy as we all move to embody our highest and best manifestations. 

Today, let’s practice yoga together in honor of one of our greatest leaders. If you can’t get to your mat today, make a personal committment to serve and uplift humanity in some small way – karma yoga.  Or practice your breathing while stuck in line or in traffic. Meditate for five minutes today. As we elevate ourselves, we cannot help but to elevate humanity. Move with love. 

Mindful Monday: New Year, New YOU

imageHappy First Mindful Monday of 2017, yogi friends! It is truly a blessing that we have an opportunity for a crisp, clean, beautiful slate! The truth is that we ALWAYS have that opportunity – each morning we are reborn. Each new breath carries with it pure potential. Yet the symbolism of a brand-spanking-new, squeaky clean year for a fresh start is simply irresistible!

Often times, it is not the daily increase, but the daily DECREASE where you find significant growth. More than 100 of our YBD teachers and students have participated in my 21 day reset detox over the past four years, and many have described this experience as life-changing. I’ll be leading it once again from our Wheaton studio this month. Continue reading, if you are at all interested in uncovering a brighter, shinier, leaner, healthier and more vibrant version of YOU in 2017.

Why a detox?

We will be removing five potentially harmful substances from our diets in order to observe the deeper levels of our unconscious minds and uproot deep-seated complexes, patterns and fears. We will reveal a deeper sense of clarity within and break from the habit of instant gratification.
Removing these substances will create space to observe a deeper connection to the role food plays in our lives and how it affects us. You will have the opportunity to break from artificial stimulants and depressants and return to the natural rhythm and flow of your body. Ending the vicious cycles of spikes and drops in your blood sugar levels and self-indulgence followed by self-flagellation.
The human body is a brilliant living organism that has the intelligence to heal and rejuvenate itself. This cleanse will allow you to identify and to eliminate your common cravings and triggers – releasing yourself from stale habits and moving you toward a higher level of wellness.
It takes 21 days to shift your tastes and cravings and start to respond to healthier, simpler foods. Your blood sugar will balance out as you are freed from old addictions.
Over these 21 days, you will be performing a hard REBOOT of your habits and routines surrounding food. It is most interesting to see what happens with those substances we cannot “live without” (morning jolt of java, day drinking, evening glass of wine?) I challenge you to LET GO and see what happens. Can you transcend your petty attachments? Aren’t you stronger than your desires? What is it we are covering up with food?
The process will be key during the detox. What comes up? Emotions, struggles, triumphs – you will begin to see exactly how food has affected your moods, body, mental state. You will uncover emotional attachments to food – do you reach for a cookie when you’re unhappy?

This process is a GIFT to yourself and to your body. Removing processed foods and alcohol gives a break to your liver and kidneys; your body will release stored junk (toxins, emotions, habits). You will experience more clarity about yourself and within your relationships as you begin to confront your own defenses and barriers.

Please remember that we are working toward progress and NOT perfection! If you’re ready to jumpstart your path to a healthier body, clearer mind and a deeper sense of conscious awareness, then this cleanse is definitely for you!
ANYONE can do this cleanse for 21 days. It is medically unassailable, and you will literally feel your body and mind vibrating from their highest levels. But it is definitely not for EVERYONE. This cleanse is HARD WORK. You will be forced to your uncomfortable edges. It is a way of living and eating SIMPLY for 21 days. Where MINDFULNESS reigns in every moment of your day. How much are you willing to WORK to begin to truly unlock your POTENTIAL?
Sign up at any of our YBD locations or online! We will meet Sundays 3- 5 p.m. in our Wheaton studio on January 8, 15, 22 and 29.
Wishing you and your family a new year filled with happiness, good health, success and prosperity!